Though he remained optimistic, and fought to the very end, Marty’s cancer proved unrelenting; it was more than his body could overcome, and the disease prevailed, as it too often does. The evening of November 18, with family by his side, Marty passed away peacefully.
Years ago, David Gates of the musical group Bread wrote lyrics to a song that many thought was a love song, but was actually written as a tribute to his father:
"Is there someone you know, you’re loving them so, but taking them all for granted? You may lose them one day, someone takes them away, and they don’t hear the words you long to say. . ."
Painful as it has been, and continues to be, we were given a gift in Marty's final months. We were able to take advantage of the opportunity to reconnect, to lend a hand, or otherwise touch his life. We had time to let him know how much he meant to us - how much he was loved.
Marty fought his battle with courage, grace, and dignity, and he didn’t fight it alone. Besides the tender care provided by his family, many of you sent cards and letters in which you shared pleasant memories, funny stories, and encouraging thoughts. He very much appreciated your well wishes - he drew strength from them.
I want to thank everyone who wrote a note; provided medical, palliative, or hospice care; engaged in the benefit held on Marty’s behalf; planted and harvested crops; prepared meals; or simply prayed for him. Your involvement provided comfort to both Marty and the family, and our gratitude for your kind attention goes beyond what words can express.
Carl Vine
